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The Netherlands – Amsterdam: Haven of Sex, Drugs and Rrr…Catcalls?

September 24, 2015 By Correspondent

Eve Aronson, Amsterdam, the Netherlands, SSH Blog Correspondent

When people think about Amsterdam, what usually comes to mind is a fantastical world of marijuana, Red Light Districts and lots of gorgeous canals running through the city.

The Netherlands is not really an obvious place to look at street harassment. Ranked fourth in Europe by the European Institute for Gender Equality, and ranked 14th in the world according to the World Economic Forum’s Global Gender Gap Index, the Netherlands at first glance appears to be doing fairly satisfactorily in terms of promoting gender equality.

But there’s also a lot of people here and, consequently, a lot of room for mischief. There’s over 4,000 people per square kilometer in Amsterdam to be precise, which is about twice the amount of people in the same amount of space in New York and London.

So many humans sharing so little space doesn’t only lead to horrendously clogged roads (and bike paths) during rush hour, but also inevitably to more catcalls, more groping and to more instances of harassment in these overcrowded public spaces.

In January and February, I conducted a detailed survey of people’s experiences with street harassment in this ‘great small city’.

In just two weeks, I received a flood of over 150 responses from women, men, LGBTQ-identified folks and people of color. What their experiences underlined was that street harassment was happening in Amsterdam and that people were itching to talk about it.

The three most popular types of harassment reported were ‘Greetings’ like Hey baby and Hi sexy, Hissing or Whistling and Sexual Comments. Below is a chart of all reported types of harassment by the survey respondents in Amsterdam:

hollaback! amsterdam street harassment surveyAlong with the types of harassment listed above, a significant number of people also reported experiencing non-verbal forms of harassment like leering, or smirking. One respondent described their harasser(s) as, “Looking at me with their eyes like they are already ripping my clothes off and raping me very violently. Looking at me like me fighting back would only turn them on more”.

What do these and other forms of street harassment do to those who experience it? What are the effects and long-term consequences, if any? To some survey respondents, the answer to these questions was that there were none, and described their experiences as ‘benign’ or ‘normal’.

Some respondents described their experiences as complimentary. Last year, New York Post writer Doree Lewark spoke to such interpretations, pointing to the euphoric nature of catcalls: “[W]hen a total stranger notices you, it’s validating…What’s so wrong about a ‘You are sexy!’ comment from any observant man?… For me, it’s nothing short of exhilarating, yielding an unmatched level of euphoria”.

But for many people in Amsterdam, what they experienced was far from euphoric. One respondent explained that she has been diagnosed with PTSD (post traumatic stress disorder) as a result of years of street harassment in Amsterdam, a recent encounter of which left her with a broken nose after she called her harassers out.

Below are two figures illustrating the extent of the effects of street harassment on the folks like the respondent above. The first shows 14 different effects that street harassment has had on people’s day-to-day lives in Amsterdam. The second gives a glimpse into some of the emotional effects that street harassment has on people who experience it:

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Survey respondents used words like “suspecting”, “fearful”, “frustrated”, “depressed” and “angry” to describe how they felt after being harassed in the streets or on public transport in Amsterdam. The experiences of these respondents were far from euphoric—rather, they are red flags that what is understood as ‘harmless’ or ‘playful’ to some is in actuality having a huge impact on how people move through public spaces and interact with others.

In April, I launched a local Hollaback! chapter in Amsterdam to provide an outlet to folks who have experienced street harassment to post their stories, get resources and mobilize on-the-ground actions. A local partner, StraatIntimidatie, is also currently running an online petition, vying for a nationwide law against street harassment.

One story told and one signature at a time, street harassment is being named and fought here in Amsterdam and around the world. Next time, I’ll talk about some cool new ways that online and digital technologies are being brought into the fold to really shed light on the pervasiveness of street harassment in Amsterdam and beyond. I’ll also talk about some important challenges that come with using these newer forms of activism and how they risk perpetuating certain racial and ethnic stereotypes about who harasses, who is harassed and why. See you next month!

You can find the full analysis of the Amsterdam survey results here or by contacting Eve at evearonson@gmail.com. Follow Eve and Hollaback! Amsterdam on Twitter at @evearonson and @iHollaback_AMS and show your support by liking Hollaback! Amsterdam’s Facebook page here.

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Tomorrow: Nottingham Street Harassment Summit

September 23, 2015 By HKearl

Nottingham Women's Centre Summit on Street Harassment

“Nottingham Women’s Centre is coordinating a summit on Thursday 24th September which will explore ways in which attitudes can be altered and behaviour changed to make public places safer for women. The summit will bring together representatives from the Police, local transport providers, universities, businesses and the City, District and County Councils, to discuss the behaviour women are subjected to in public. The most effective ways in which women can be encouraged to report incidents of harassment – confident that they will be taken seriously and that appropriate action taken – will be considered in a bid to ensure Nottinghamshire is the destination of choice for women in terms of work, study, socialising or retail.

The event will culminate in a call for individuals, agencies and businesses to make a pledge towards a new Women’s Safety Charter for Nottinghamshire. Nottingham Women’s Centre is welcoming messages of support for the summit and examples of the everyday harassment that women face. Please use the hashtag #Nottacompliment to show your support or share your examples. More info.”

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“He was so embarrassed he slunk away”

September 21, 2015 By HKearl

When I was 21 years old, I went to live for a year in Mexico as part of a cultural exchange. Once I took a bus to a small town and as soon as I got off the bus an older man, maybe 50ish, starting following me and saying rude things to me and looking around to make sure everyone heard him. He was feeling proud of himself. I thought he would stop after a while if he got no reaction from me but he didn’t. Eventually I’d had enough. I stopped on the street, turned around, looked at him and screamed as loudly as I could (in Spanish) ‘LEAVE ME ALONE!’

Everyone saw and heard and he was so embarrassed he slunk away. I felt great!

Optional: What’s one way you think we can make public places safer for everyone?

Raise awareness of what’s going on.

– Frances

Location: A small village in Mexico

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“I don’t deserve to be harassed”

September 20, 2015 By Contributor

Lately the weather in California has been very hot so of course I wouldn’t go out of the house in a wool sweater. Instead I went out in a tank top. As soon as school was over, I immediately walked home so I could quickly get back to my cool home. I was a block away from my home where I see two young teens. They were already looking at me and I got a very uneasy feeling. I took out my phone and called my sister who was already home. While the phone was ringing I could hear the to boys trying to get my attention. One seemed to be laughing while the other tried to call me over as if I were a dog. My sister eventually answered and I asked her to come out of the house because I was being harassed. She hung up the phone and from a distance I saw her waiting for me at the front door.

I could still hear the boy yelling at me. Only this time he began to say, “Hey bitch!” over and over just because I wouldn’t turn and look at him. I felt so disgusted and angry. I tried to calm myself down to not start crying because of the frustration I felt. I found it so unfair the way they were treating me. I don’t deserve to be harassed. I was not “asking for it” because of the way I dressed. NO ONE (male, female, lesbian, gay, bi, trans, queer, etc.) DESERVES TO BE HARASSED OR WORRY IF THEIR OUTFIT IS “TOO REVEALING”.

– Anonymous

Location: California

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Daily harassment while wearing a hijab and an abaya

September 17, 2015 By Contributor

Throughout my stay in Morocco I wore a black hijab and an abaya and not a single day passed without men leering at me, whispering comments like ‘beautiful’ as they walked past me, being followed or even being touched whilst in crowded places. It made me feel so disgusting and filthy.

The worst incident was when I was not even outside my own house and a guy decided it was OK to start winking at me and make gestures just because I made eye contact with him when I was looking out of the window. It made me feel so angry that I wasn’t even safe inside my own house, let alone walking outside, regardless of who I was with.

– Anonymous

Location: Morocco

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