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USA: NYC Mayor has a Sexism Problem

February 1, 2013 By Contributor

Image via Hollaback!

By: Talia Weisberg, SSH Correspondent

Since Michael Bloomberg has been mayor of New York City, my hometown and current city of residence, since I was seven years old, he’s the only mayor I can really remember. Ever since I was able to form an opinion on Bloomberg, I’ve felt pretty neutrally about him; I had never heard of anything he’d done that made me squeal in delight or gasp in horror.

As a result, I was really taken aback when I read that Bloomberg had said, “I know for a fact that any self-respecting woman who walks past a construction site and doesn’t get a whistle will turn around and walk past again and again until she does get one.” It was recorded by Bloomberg LP employees in The Portable Bloomberg: The Wit and Wisdom of Michael Bloomberg, a 1990 book dedicated to record the mayor’s more memorable comments.

I had to read the quotation twice for its actual meaning to set in. At first, I was confused; is he trying to say that women will purposely walk past construction sites, even multiple times, to garner attention from the workers there? No, that can’t be, I must have read that incorrectly. Everyone knows that women don’t like that, that women will cross the street to avoid construction sites and the unwanted comments that often come with them. Then I read the quotation a second time and realized that my eyes hadn’t deceived me.

It’s so upsetting to find out that the man who has led my hometown for the past decade is so insensitive to street harassment, an issue so close to my heart. Bloomberg made it seem like women want and even vie for the chance to be catcalled. In reality, the polar opposite is true: women feel unsafe and humiliated and just plain grossed out when they are harassed on the street. I daresay that few people would go out of their way to have such an experience.

Upon doing research on Bloomberg’s history with sex discrimination, his track record is far from clean. The Equal Employment Opportunity Commission filed a class-action lawsuit against Bloomberg LP for 72 women who suffered from pregnancy-related discrimination. Another statement in The Portable Bloomberg is “If women wanted to be appreciated for their brains, they’d go to the library instead of to Bloomingdale’s.”

He also told NYC Council Speaker Christine Quinn, “Do you pay a lot to make your hair be two colors? Because now it’s three with the gray.” (Considering his own hair is gray, he’s got a lot of chutzpah.) Had I known all this, I wouldn’t have been so surprised that Bloomberg was so insensitive towards street harassment.

Well, Bloomberg’s final term will be up in November, and the mayoral position will be up for grabs. I certainly hope that his replacement will be more understanding of street harassment, and recognize the fact that it’s not just a catcall. It’s a women’s rights issue.

Talia Weisberg is a Harvard-bound feminist hoping to concentrate in Studies of Women, Gender, and Sexuality. Her work has appeared in over 40 publications and she runs the blog Star of Davida blog (starofdavida.blogspot.com).

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Unusual Punishment for Street Harassers in Carlisle, UK

January 31, 2013 By HKearl

There are few ordinances or policies that address sexual harassment and even fewer that are enforced, so I am fascinated to hear about a city ordinance in Carlisle, UK, that plays out like this when it’s enforced:

“A man who made sexually offensive remarks to a woman at a Carlisle bus stop has been banned from approaching any lone women on the street for the next ten years.

The unusual order was passed on 56-year-old David Delahunty at the city’s Crown Court today (THURS) as part of his punishment for kissing a woman on the cheek after making insulting sexual suggestions to her at a bus stop.”

And more:

“For the court order – imposed after Delahunty pleaded guilty to a charge of sexual assault – bans him for the next ten years from approaching or speaking to ‘any lone female not known to him in a public place’ except in an emergency.

The court heard the woman, who was in her 20s, was waiting for a bus in West Tower Street on November 26 last year when Delahunty came up, made suggestive comments and kissed her on the cheek.

He even frightened her by claiming – falsely – that he had just been released prison after serving a sentence for rape.”

I’m not sure how enforceable the punishment is, but I like the idea — threatening someone on the street is serious and makes people feel unsafe in their community and it should be dealt with seriously.

Thoughts?

Thanks to reader Kate for the news tip.

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NYC Mayor, Street Harassment is a not a compliment

January 30, 2013 By HKearl

It’s no secret that many politicians and leaders are corrupt and say and do inappropriate things, but it’s still very disappointing to hear some of the extremely sexist things New York City Mayor Michael Bloomberg has said over the years, as revealed by Gawker. He’s even equated street harassment with compliments, saying:

“I know for a fact that any self-respecting woman who walks past a construction site and doesn’t get a whistle will turn around and walk past again and again until she does get one.”

Unacceptable.

Street harassment is gender violence and a human rights violation. Remarks like his are a great reminder why we need feminists (women and men) in political positions. How can we trust that his government will ever address street harassment if this is his view? How can we ever feel he’ll advocate for pro-women policies if he seems to hate and degrade women?

 

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USA: Building male allies, one guy at a time

January 30, 2013 By Contributor

By: Allison Riley, SSH Correspondent

A male friend of mine posted this image on Tumblr—it’s a Game Boy Color device turned to the side. I responded and said that I take offense to this photo because of the phrase “that ass”. Whether or not we realize it consciously, placing this phrase on top of an object immediately makes us compare it to a woman; thus participating in objectification. One looks at the curved battery compartment of the Game Boy and instantly connects it to the curves of a woman’s hips. When people find images like this humorous, it shows that they are condoning behavior that is considered harassment whether they realize it or not.

A mutual friend of ours posted the following statuses on her Facebook the next day:

“To the stranger downtown: First of all, I’m not your “Honey”…Ew. Secondly, no I’m not going to holla at you just because you think I’m pretty.”

“To stranger #2 from downtown: WTF you have no right to sexually harass me with “I’d beat that” while looking me up and down. I’m a classy effing lady, not a dog meant for your sick amusement. #ugh #omgwhatisupwithtoday”

 I noticed that the male friend I mentioned “liked” both of these statuses. I also know that he takes pride in calling himself a “nice guy,” yet his Tumblr post contradicted that. So I decided to give him a call. I told him to take a second look at the Game Boy photo he posted and to imagine that our friend was in the photo instead. Then would it be funny if the caption was “that ass”?

He ended up deleting the photo by the end of that week.

Then the other night, I was conversing with another male friend about gender-neutral bathrooms. He asked me if I would feel comfortable showering next to a guy. I said no because he might harass me. He replied, “What about a lesbian woman? Would you feel comfortable showering with her?”

“I already have before,” I said.

“And you don’t mind if she’s checking you out?”

“Well I know for a fact that she’s not,” I said.

“What if you didn’t know she was lesbian? Are you automatically trusting her because she’s the same sex as you?”

Generally yes, I trust women in public spaces—but mainly because none of my experiences with them thus far have been harmful to me. Only my experiences with men have been harmful; hence we say street harassment is motivated by gender.

My friend proceeded to tell me about how he has been slapped on the butt and harassed by gay men before. He has also gotten harassed by women when out alone. “I’ve had girls come up to me and basically behave like a guy,” he said. He elaborated further and we agreed that behaving “like a guy” equates actions like slapping someone’s butt, catcalling, and other unwanted gestures.

Immediately I wondered, why doesn’t he share his experience? Why don’t more guys speak up about this topic? I asked him, and he said that he simply doesn’t feel like he can. Or if he does, it won’t do anything. In reality, we all know it’s quite the opposite. It does make a difference because it will educate other men.  Sharing experiences and opinions will add to the bits of information surfacing about street harassment and male socialization.

And if you ask me, true masculinity consists of taking on that positive, educational role.

When building male allies in fighting street harassment, it helps to find common ground. It helps put the seriousness of the topic into perspective. The guys with common sense will admit that they hate being harassed in public just as much as we do and hate to see us go through it.

I directed both of these guys to check out the Male Allies section of this website. On to the next!

Allison is a 2012 graduate of Metropolitan State University of Denver where she majored in Journalism with a minor in women’s studies. Follow Allison on Twitter at @a_wonderlandd.

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“Give me your number, sexy”

January 29, 2013 By HKearl

On the way to a shopping mall a group of young men (maybe five) whistled and screamed, “Give me your number, sexy. I wanna see you again etc.”

When I turned around and said, “No,” they came nearer and one of them told me that I’d be “too ugly and fat anyway” for “a good fuck.” His friends applauded him.

– Anonymous

Location: Berlin, Germany

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