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Metro Anti-Harassment Skit

September 12, 2012 By HKearl


Sadly, sexual harassment on the subway is not that unusual, yet few people (outside feminist circles) talk about it. For that reason, Collective Action for Safe Spaces & Voices of Men rode the Washington, DC, Metro and collaborated to perform a skit about harassment to bring attention to the issue. I played the role of the harassee.

The metro riders were pretty surprised because theater/performance is very rare on the DC system, but there were a lot of supportive comments each time we finished the skit. We did the skit about 10 times on several different subway cars.

Taking collective action like this is an important way to show that street harassment is not okay in your community. It’s also a great way to include new people in the work. One of the bystanders in our skit, John, was brand new to feminist activism and was an enthusiastic participant in speaking out against street harassment.

This skit can easily be replicated on other subways, metros, and buses. Reach out to either group for information:

Collective Action for Safe Spaces (CASS)
www.collectiveactiondc.org

Voices of Men
www.voicesofmen.org

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Filed Under: Activist Interviews, male perspective, public harassment, street harassment Tagged With: collective action for safe spaces, DC, metro harassment, sexual harassment, voices of men

“Yes, it’s MY fault that you were caught being a creepy weirdo”

September 12, 2012 By Contributor

I’ve spent the last two days coordinating a large conference at my university in London. This evening was the conference dinner, which included a nice public thank you and bunch of flowers for my work, so I was feeling pretty happy after a productive day.

Maybe creepy guys have some in-built monitor that tells them a woman’s had a good day and deserves to have it spoiled: I was two stops from home on the Piccadilly line when I noticed that the young guy next to me is turned right round staring into my face. I turn to face him with a death stare, at which point most normal people feel some embarrassment and look away.

Not so this one, who just carried on staring with such intensity that I had to ask him twice if he had a problem, at which point he took offense and looked away with a moody, “No!”

When I got off (he luckily wasn’t getting off at the same stop) he stared at me through the window with a look of real hatred and put his fingers to his head in some weird amalgamation of giving me the finger and making the symbol for a gun. Because, yes, it’s MY fault that you were caught being a creepy weirdo and MY fault that you can’t behave like a normal goddamn person.

– Jen

Location: Piccadilly line, Finsbury Park, London

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“Go all night with me”

September 11, 2012 By Contributor

I am an Asian American living in Morocco. I get harassed by kids who follow me and make sounds that they think is Chinese mixed with animal noises that end up sounding like pigs. Men harass me by shouting words they learn in English, like “Go all night with me” and “Shake that ass for me.” Men follow me on bikes and in cars trying to talk to me.

– Anonymous

Location: Bir Jdid, Morocco

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Male Allies Win Awards!

September 11, 2012 By HKearl

In March, Meet Us on the Street: International Anti-Street Harassment Week was packed full of amazing anti-street harassment initiatives. Coincidentally, two of the initiatives led by male allies won awards today!!!

1. In India, Dhruv Arora launched the website GotStared.At where people can post photos of the clothes they were wearing when harassed along with their story. What really went viral though were graphics like the one on the right, which, once posted on Facebook, were shared widely.

Today, GotStared.At won the prestigious UN World Summit Youth Award in the category Power 2 Women! Congratulations Dhruv!!

2. In New York City, USA, a team of men and women decided to create a short video about how men can be involved in stopping street harassment, using the meme “Shit […] Say” videos. The video launched during Meet Us on the Street and quickly went viral. It engaged people with the issue in an entertaining way and let men know they are needed in this movement.

Today, the video won the “Seeing My World through a Safer Lens Video Contest“! Congratulations to everyone who was involved, especially Joe Samalin and Bix Gabriel.

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Native Americans Speak Out About Street Harassment

September 10, 2012 By HKearl

Kristina and Sunny Clifford

““Hey baby girl,” a group of ten and twelve-year-old Native American boys yelled over and over as they jumped on a trampoline. Then they lifted up their shirts and said, “You want some of this?” as they pounded on their chests. Their targets: Sunny and Kristina Clifford, two Native American sisters in their 20s, sitting outside their mother’s home on the Pine Ridge Reservation in South Dakota. The boys wouldn’t stop and the young women felt so uncomfortable they went inside the house.

The Clifford sisters shared this story during a focus group I recently held at Oglala Lakota College on Pine Ridge Reservation about Native Americans’ experiences with street harassment. They said this incident had happened to them just the day before.

I quickly learned from the focus group participants that, like the rest of the country and the rest of the world, sexual harassment in public spaces is not unusual on the Pine Ridge Reservation, an area the size of the state of Connecticut with a population of 18,834 and an unemployment rate of 89 percent.

Most people on the reservation do not have regular access to a car, and the only public transportation available is a relatively new shuttle bus. As a result, walking is a primary way for people to travel from place to place. The women said that’s when they experience the most street harassment, at the hands of Native and non-Native men driving by in their cars. Kristina Clifford remarked, “There’s always somebody honking, or saying things, yelling, or whatever. It just makes me uncomfortable.”

Sometimes, another woman said, the men drive by once, turn around, and drive by again and again, just to harass them. Consequently, there are places the young women will not walk, and Sunny Clifford, a runner, said she won’t run along the roads anymore.” (Read More)

This is an excerpt from an article I wrote for the Women’s Media Center.

Five years after I turned in my master’s thesis on street harassment, I never thought I’d spend my weekends, most of my vacation days, and lunch hours researching, writing, and bringing attention to the issue. But street harassment has become so important to me that I do, and I feel lucky that I can. In particular, my passion is making sure as many stories and voices as possible are heard so that we can better understand the scope of the problem and its impact.

One population whose street harassment stories I had never seen shared anywhere before were Native Americans’ stories. Because they face higher rates of gender violence than any other racial group in the U.S., I felt it was especially important to learn about their experiences.

Two weeks ago today, I took four vacation days from my day job, caught a cheap flight to Denver and paid for a rental car to drive 6 hours to South Dakota. Through the help of Holly Sortland, the founder of an amazing initiative called ProjectRespect.org, I had the opportunity to hear from Native Americans living on Pine Ridge Reservation and in Rapid City. Their stories touched me, angered me, and made more determined than ever to do this work. I am grateful they were brave enough to share their deeply personal stories and I’m glad that the Associated Press and South Dakota PBS radio recognized the importance of their stories and shared some of them through their media channels.

The stories from these and other upcoming focus groups will supplement a first-of-its-kind national study of 2000 people I am trying to make happen. Please donate $10 (or more if you can) to ensure it happens; I have a great group of PhD-level experts ready to advise me on the surveying instrument and a very reputable survey firm ready to conduct it once we have enough funds.

Public policy and public attitudes about street harassment will change only once we have the right combination of stories and data. So many of you have shared your stories (thank you), now I need your help so we can have data. Thank you.

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Filed Under: street harassment Tagged With: indians, native americans, pine ridge reservation, projectrespect.org, sexual harassment, south dakota, street harassment, sunny clifford, women's media center

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