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“Not Your Baby” App

September 14, 2012 By HKearl

If you’re like me and tend to freeze up or draw a blank when you experience harassment, here’s a great resource to help you out, from our partner in Canada, METRAC. (They’re also the organization that also founded community safety audits).

Via their press release:

“On September 10, 2012, METRAC released a free iPhone app, “Not Your Baby”, to help users deal with sexual harassment. Once installed, the app will allow users to input where they are – such as work, school or on the street – and who’s harassing them – such as a boss, coworker or fellow student. A response will be generated “in the moment”, based on the input of 238 people who shared what they’ve done to deal with similar instances of harassment. “Not Your Baby” also includes their stories and tips and allows users to submit their own….

“Not Your Baby” stands as an example of the power of technology to help people take action, including women, young women, LGBTTIQQ2S and other groups most at risk of sexual and gender-based harassment. It is available on iTunes and by visiting METRAC’s website, www.metrac.org.”

What a great idea!

The Torontoist has more:

“METRAC communications director Andrea Gunraj described the app as “another tool that people can use to feel empowered,” rather than a cure-all for sexual harassment. She pointed to work by groups including the White Ribbon Campaign, for encouraging men, who are overwhelmingly the perpetrators of sexual harassment, to talk about the behaviour and its impact. She sees a need for more resources for men, including those “who want to diffuse harassment, who want to say something and don’t know how.”

According to Gunraj, it’s up to communities to initiate the uncomfortable social conversations that can lead to reflection and change. She noted that “the biggest barrier is speaking about it and seeing it as a problem. Too often we accept harassment as a fact of life.””

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Film from Istanbul: I’ve got your back

September 14, 2012 By HKearl


“Presented to you by Canımız Sokakta- Hollaback Istanbul, this movie documents women’s experience of sexual harassment in public areas in Istanbul in the form of stories recited by men. The stories were previously submitted on canimizsokakta.org

The movie is a part of the bystander-intervention campaign called “I’ve Got Your Back!” (Arkani kolluyorum!) that is brought to you by Canimiz Sokakta and Green Dot.

We chose men to perform in this movie to show that they could be a great force in helping end sexual harassment in public by disapproving of the harassers’ actions. Special thanks to:
Arda Başar
Can Önalan
Dina Nigmatullina
Egemen Bor
Ekin Gayretli
Ezgi Cincin
John McCarroll
Kacie Lyn Kocher
Max Harwood
Muzaffer Can Karadayı
Oğuzhan Köklü
Umut Vedat
Volkan Yumurtacı
Yavuz Selim Yılmaz”
http://istanbul-en.ihollaback.org/i%E2%80%99ve-got-your-back/

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Bu kısa film, İstanbul’un çeşitli kamusal alanlarında kadınların başlarına gelen cinsel taciz olaylarının, erkekler tarafından izleyicilere nakledildiği bir projedir. Bu film, görgü tanıklarının şahit oldukları tacizlere müdahale etmelerini sağlamayı amaçlayan ve Canimiz Sokakta ve Green Dot işbirliği ile gerçekleştirilen “Arkani Kolluyorum!” (I’ve Got Your Back!”) kampanyasının bir parçası olarak çekilmiştir.
Bu filmde anlatılan hikayeler, film çekimi öncesinde canimizsokakta.org adresine kadınlar tarafından gönderilmişlerdir.
Bu filmde erkeklere rol vererek, erkeklerin tacizcilerin davranışlarını onaylamadıklarını gösterdikleri takdirde, kamusal alanda yaşanan cinsel taciz olaylarına son vermede çok büyük bir güce sahip olduklarını göstermek amaçlanmıştır.

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“I’m saying, ‘Please. Just. Stop.'”

September 14, 2012 By Contributor

I just went to the supermarket, and on my way home I got cat-called from a car. I told a female friend this yesterday and her first response was, “Oh my god, what were you wearing?” so I’ll address that completely irrelevant question here: long-sleeved baggy top, baggy jeans; it was laundry day so I looked awful.

Anyway what really bothers me about it is that it knocked me back for all of about three seconds while I glared at the car and then I went back to my usual bubbly self – which is fine, that’s great – but I thought to myself, “Well, at least being catcalled from a (fast-moving car is like the least scary form of street harassment.” Even I’M normalising this stuff now. That can’t be a good thing.

It’s not normal, it’s not acceptable, and it’s sleazy as all get-out, so guys: I’m not saying “if you’re going to catcall, do it from a car.” I’m saying, “Please. Just. Stop.” I don’t have time to waste on dealing with your rubbish. I’m just trying to do my shopping.

– Anonymous

Location: Canterbury, UK

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Little Bird Project Launches to use Art to Address Street Harassment

September 14, 2012 By Contributor

Earlier this year at my former place of employment, a male patron (who’d already called me “darlin’”) yelled angrily into my face:  “Thanks a lot, Toots!” My manager demanded I simply, “smile and nod”….  So I quit and launched the Little Bird project. Through the arts, we raise awareness about street harassment as a human rights issue for women and LGBT community members in San Francisco, California.

It turns out I’m not alone in wanting to stop street harassment.  Artists, business owners, and other amazing folks have jumped on-board with the Little Bird’s mission.  Our art-based impact strategy ensures inclusiveness:  we offer the Little Bird symbol and message for artists to create art around, and the artist does the rest!  Through our project activities – including art events, merchandise sales (coming soon!), and online community, as well as opportunities for artists and businesses – we aim to create a space where anyone who wants to can get involved.

The Little Bird kickoff event is set for Oct. 13, 2012 at Mama Art Café in San Francisco.  The event will be a unique time of celebrating art, artists, and the community that is forming around the Little Bird, while promoting participants’ work as individuals.  Featured artists include Amelia Lewis, Eugene Rodriguez, Beatrice Thomas, and Mission Mini Comix, with spoken word by Trina Robbins.  The art (and its beautiful custom framing) will be sold via Silent Auction at the event, as will art supply gift certificates, frame shop gift certificates, salon styling services, and even pinup-inspired lingerie, all courtesy of our amazing contributing businesses!  Check out our gallery for a sneak preview of the art, and RSVP to secure your spot in the bidding!

Other things the Little Bird is thrilled about:

* The Little Bird is pleased to be working with Stop Street Harassment’s Holly Kearl, who is on our Advisory Board.  Holly’s breadth of knowledge and professionalism in confronting street harassment makes her such a pleasure to work with (thank you Holly!).

* The Little Bird project is now Fiscally Sponsored (by Fractured Atlas) and can accept donations online.  Donations help fund our events, artist commissions, merchandise production, and administrative costs.  Donate now!

* Our online tools:  like us on FaceBook, follow us on Twitter (@LittleBirdSF), and bookmark the Little Bird’s blog!

    Contact us for more information!  www.thelittlebirdprojectsf.org

    This guest blog post was written by Sarah Harper, the Little Bird project Director.  Her work is fueled by her passion for the issue, attraction to the arts, and background in professional writing, marketing, project management, Search Engine Optimization, and education.  Sarah was also the Meet Us on the Streets San Francisco coordinator in 2012.

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    Filed Under: Activist Interviews, street harassment

    “I’ll pay you R$ 10 (US$ 4.91) if you come with me”

    September 13, 2012 By Contributor

    “I’ll pay you R$ 10 (US$ 4.91) if you come with me” — That’s what I heard when I was going to school in the morning, at the age of 13. I felt just like crap after that middle-aged man, a stranger, said this thing to me. Actually, I still do when I remember this and all the harassment that I’ve been through in life since my childhood…

    – R

    Location: São Paulo – Brazil

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