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From Washington, DC to Kabul: Community Marches against Street Harassment

July 7, 2011 By HKearl

Last month I was part of a team of activists who organized a march against street harassment in Washington, DC. It was empowering to walk the streets with a diverse crowd of community members, reminding people that they are “our streets, too.” It also felt empowering to raise more awareness about this important issue offline.

Even though street harassment often is a controversial topic, during the march itself, I felt safe and passersby were generally supportive. I didn’t notice any harassment or heckling, which had been a slight concern going into the march. It probably helped that there were numerous male allies in our midst.

I hope the same will be true next week when feminist activist and Dickinson College sophomore Noorjahan Akbar helps lead a community march against street harassment in Kabul, Afghanistan. I suspect their march will be quite different from ours, especially since many people at ours wore shorts and tank tops in the warm summer sun. In addition to having different clothing choices and probably a lot more chance of facing harassment and even attack from passersby, their march will be historic for marking the first time people are taking public action around street harassment in Afghanistan.

The Facebook event page highlights what will take place:

“Hadia, a group of Afghan volunteers, and Young Women for Change (YWC), an organization working for the welfare and empowerment of Afghan women, would like to invite youth across the city to join hands in a campaign [called Advocacy for Dignity] against street harassment of women on Thursday, July 14, 2011 at 3 p.m.

The majority of the participants of this campaign will be women to guarantee the comfort of female participants, but young men who oppose the disrespect of women are also welcome to this event.

Approximately a hundred youth will start walking from Chahari Sadaarat, Shahr, at 3 p.m. and walk to the Ministry of Women’s Affairs. This [march] … will end after a half hour gathering in front of the MOWA. During the campaign, members of Hadia and YWC will encourage the public to partake in the peaceful walk as a sign of protest and a method for raising awareness on the un-Islamic act of women’s harassment.

In addition to advocating through the walk, Hadia and YWC members want to use media and propaganda as a means of raising awareness to recognize street harassment of women as a violation of their human rights and an issue that discourages women from social participation.”

How exciting! Yesterday I corresponded with Akbar via Facebook about the march. She told me more about why they are holding it:

“The main reason we are holding this campaign is that despite the fact that women’s harassment is a serious problem that discourages many women from active participation in the society, it is not recognized as a problem. Women often remain silent when they are harassed and men believe it is normal to assault women, just like drinking water.

Harassment of women has gotten worse in the last couple of years as more women have started going out of their houses for schooling or jobs. However, that is not the only reason harassment has increased. Governmental regulations to restrict women’s behavior and clothing, for example the proposed wedding law that requires women to dress “modestly’ in weddings, encourages the people who think like the Taliban and believe women should remain in their homes to harass women as they exit their houses and use women’s “inappropraite” clothing as an excuse.

Through our campaign, we hope that sexual harassment will be recognized as a problem, discussed in the Afghan media and men, rather than the victims who are women, will be held responsible for their disrespectful behavior.”

Except for the middle paragraph, her quote could have been written by almost any woman around the world. Globally, street harassment is not acknowledged as a serious problem (though thanks to important groups like the New York City Council and UN Women who are taking on this issue, this is shifting a little bit) and we need to help raise awareness that it is and get men involved in being part of the solution.

This global problem requires a global response and I am so excited to add Afghanistan to the growing list of countries where there is resistance and activism taking place to make public places safer for women and girls.

For more information about this march and related feminist activism in Kabul, read a UN Dispatch published just yesterday called The Rise of Afghanistan’s Fearless Young Feminists.

Stay tuned for a blog post after July 14 recapping how their march went.

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“I am speaking out!”

July 7, 2011 By Contributor

I was locking my bike up outside a bank and witnessed three fellows spill out of a local eatery. As they crossed the street, three young women and a fellow were walking down the sidewalk. One of the aforementioned three fellows started in with, “Oooh baby,” and, “Hey girls,” towards the group.

When he got no response he said to the gals’ guy friend, “Buddy, I’ll trade you the one in the yellow for the bread I have in my pocket.”

The target group looked so uncomfortable. I felt soooo uncomfortable that I took a deep breath and yelled across the street, “You, stop harassing these women.”

The perp and his friends booed me, but the young women thanked me.

I witness, hear about, and am subjected to this bullshit daily. I am speaking out!! As a side note….the perp and his friends were heading to a strip club.

– K.Wilkins

Location: London, Ontario, Canada

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“I FINALLY DID IT!!!!!”

July 6, 2011 By Contributor

I FINALLY DID IT!!!!!

My whole adult life I have been offended and annoyed by entitled-ass men telling me to smile. It gets me so worked up every time, but I’m usually not thinking quickly enough, or in a position to confront the guy. I have serious staircase wit when it comes to this scenario.

Today I was standing inside Sullivan Station waiting for my bus, when a guy brushed past me, saying, “Smile, beautiful.”

My bus was already one minute late, so I froze, trying to decide if it was worth it for me to potentially miss my bus by confronting this guy. After a few seconds of hesitation I realized I would be kicking myself all night if I didn’t, so I grabbed my T-pass and ran after him, catching up with him on the subway platform.

I went up to him and said, “Just so you know, it doesn’t make women feel good when you tell them to smile. Sometimes people have shitty days and they don’t feel like smiling. It’s offensive to just tell them to smile.”

He started apologizing and saying he didn’t mean it like that, then said, “But you’re beautiful, and you would be more beautiful if you smiled.”

“Whatever. You know what? It’s not my job to look nice for you. I’m out living my life, and I could have had something really bad happen to me today, I could have had someone die, you don’t know, and you telling me to smile is just disrespectful.” (side note, today was in fact the anniversary of a sad personal event).

He apologized some more and said he didn’t intend for it to come out like that, and he was truly sorry if I had lost a loved one. Not the most heartfelt apology I’ve ever heard (I’m not sure he truly grasped the reason for my outrage), but it was something.

“Okay,” I told him, “that’s all, I just need you to know that it is not cool.”

As I turned to leave, he said, “You spent $1.70 to tell me that?”

“Nah, I have a monthly pass.”

And then I caught my bus.

– Allison

Location: 1 Cambridge St, Charlestown, MA 02129

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Safe Horizon Safe Harbor Student Leaders speak out

July 4, 2011 By HKearl

Watch as the Safe Horizon Safe Harbor Student Leaders speak out about their right to feel safe on the streets, with help from Rachel Henes and Rebecca Forlenza. (Via the Hollaback Youtube Channel)

On the Stop Street Harassment website, you can access information about the events that led to the 2010 New York City Council hearing and watch portions of the testimonies given during the hearing.

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Filed Under: Activist Interviews, hollaback, male perspective, Stories Tagged With: NYC council hearing, Safe Horizon Safe Harbor Student Leaders, street harassment

Man convicted after harassing under-cover female officers

June 30, 2011 By HKearl

A not-so brilliant street harasser who solicited two under cover policewomen during an anti-street harassment sting in New Delhi, India, has been convicted of “outraging the modesty of women,” and may face up to a year in jail, plus a fine. I’m not a fan of the description of the crime (women are not modesty but we do deserve respect, men do, too), but the outcome is refreshing.

Via MSN India:

“Metropolitan Magistrate Shunali Gupta convicted Haryana resident Vinod under Section 509 of the Indian Penal Code (IPC) for outraging the modesty of women, saying, ‘From the evidence led, prosecution has been able to prove the charges against the accused beyond reasonable doubt.’ The court, which convicted Vinod, is yet to pronounce its sentence, which may be up to one year in jail besides the fine.

The eve-teasing incident dates back to September 23, 2005, when Vinod approached the two women head constables, waiting at a bus stand in Mangolpuri police station area. Vinod stopped his scooter near the bus stand and began uttering indecent and obscene words and making vulgar gestures.

“Aaj mausam bada suhana hai, tumme se kaun chal sakti hai, usko main paise de kar khush kar dunga, mere pas jagah bhi hai (Its a nice weather today, who among you can join me for a accompany? I will satisfy you with money. I also have a proper space for the purpose),” Vinod remarked when some cops waiting in plain clothes swooped upon him and arrested him.”

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