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Charleston Shooting, Race, and Sexual Violence

June 18, 2015 By HKearl

Yesterday, a white supremacist terrorist went to a Black church in Charleston and murdered nine people, six women and three men (read about them. My thoughts go out to their loved ones). This level of premeditated violence and hate is hard to comprehend, particularly at a place that is supposed to be peaceful and safe.

Survivors report he said, “I have to do it. You rape our women and you’re taking over our country. And you have to go.”

I keep thinking about that. And how wrong he is. Black women are as valuable as white women and women of any other race. There is no “our” and “their.” White men are more likely to rape white women overall than are Black men. Black people are certainly not “taking over” the country. I know I shouldn’t try to find logic in the thought process of someone like him, but, I can’t help but also ask, why kill mostly women if that is his line of reasoning? And at a church?

His words bring up longstanding problems in our society: the perceived value of white women’s bodies over Black women’s and white men justifying their violence against Black people over (usually just lip-service instead of actual) concern for white women.

Dr. Estelle Freedman’s book Redefining Rape: Sexual Violence in the Era of Suffrage and Segregation as well as Dr. Danielle McGuire’s book At the Dark End of the Street: Black Women, Rape, and Resistance–A New History of the Civil Rights Movement from Rosa Parks to the Rise of Black Power are good resources for learning about this in the late 1800s and 1900s in the USA. They show how our country, our legal system is built on the oppression of all women and men of color.

We can see that in how laws and the justice system today protect white men (especially wealthy and heterosexual) at the expense of everyone else. That has to change.

I also want to share what Courtney E. Martin, a writer and thinker whom I greatly admire, shared today on her Facebook page:

“I’m thinking about how, yes, the shooter is probably mentally ill, but how our racist society is, too, and how we can’t pretend he is an anomaly. He is the son of white people, the son of America, the son of our education system and our culture and our history. We made him. White Americans, especially, made him. So how can we stop making him? How can we take responsibility for the history and the present? And what is my role in that unmaking and that claiming of responsibility?“

As a white person too, I think about that. What can I do to challenge racism and to make it so that public spaces, churches, schools, and workplaces are safe and equitable for all? I implore any white people reading this to think about it too (if you aren’t already). We have to help make the change.

 

 

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Filed Under: News stories, race

Nicaragua Street Harassment Report Release

June 18, 2015 By HKearl

Nicaragua Team Report Release
Click on the image to access the full report.

Our 2014 Safe Public Spaces Mentoring Team Observatorio Contra el Acoso Callejero, Nicaragua, surveyed 900 women about street harassment in the city of Managua in the last months of 2014. More than fifteen volunteers interviewed women ages 14-55 at bus stops across the city.

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You can read about their preliminary results here. Today they are officially releasing the full report at a big event, with a press conference.

Congratulations to them and many thanks for their dedication to bringing attention to this issue in their country!

UPDATED: Here are photos and some of the media coverage!

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Andrea Farrington, Murdered for Reporting Sexual Harassment

June 15, 2015 By HKearl

Andrea Farrington, image via Liberals Unite

Over the weekend, I was so saddened and outraged to read that Alexander Kozak, a security guard at a mall in Iowa, point blank shot a 20-year-old young woman named Andrea Farrington because she (and other women) had reported him for sexual harassment. He finally lost his job over it, and in retaliation, he murdered her.

Liberals Unite has this on this site today, which is so true:

“The other aspect, which seems to be somewhat overlooked by articles in mainstream and social media, is that this young woman, barely out of her teens, was murdered horribly and in cold blood for reporting sexual harassment.

She reported this man again and again before he was finally let go, and then he killed her.

So the message that’s being sent out to women of all ages experiencing sexual harassment is: Don’t ruffle the feathers. Don’t report harassment. If you do, good luck getting anyone to take action. Good luck not being accused of ‘asking for it.’

If your complaint causes the job termination of someone, take cover, because that person might seek revenge and kill you.

So just quit your job quietly, and go work somewhere else. Leave the harasser, who will keep his job, to continue harassing others – that is, unless he gets arrested for tracking you down and killing you–after all, you did reject him.”

There was a vigil to honor her yesterday. Our thoughts go out to her family and friends. What a senseless and horrific loss.

You can help her family via: http://www.gofundme.com/wx2rxg

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GIRLS!!! NOT FOR SALE

June 14, 2015 By HKearl

This poem is by F.Jesril Bastina

It’s a tale, of the daughter of India!
A tale of a young girl so pale
Being brutally raped and killed by a ferocious male.
She began her day with a fine sunshine,
And ended her day with an inhuman pain.
Now it’s time to explain, the real agony with our brain,
Those conscienceless drug addicts came as a group,
Just grabbed and then raped.
The young beauty, sacrificed her precious   life
For the happiness of some greedy animals.
Now it’s time for three questions,
How she dressed? Where she went? Who is she?
In this incident the victim, she,
Is blamed more than the criminal, he,
And the reason given by them is!
She dressed badly, came so late, and that’s her fate.
But what we need is a solution and not a reason,
We girls are not born to be products
Sold for someone’s entertainment,
If dress is a threat for a girl’s safety,
What type of dress shall a 3yr old wear? Nor a nun can wear?
All that matters is, India has more greedy boys
And more irresponsible citizens,
This poem is written by an angry Indian girl,
Against greedy Indian boys,
To be responsible and brave Indian boys.
Oh change you boys to be responsible and you girls to be brave flammable
Nirbaya, the great daughter of India,
Your life you have surrendered
So that thousands of Nirbaya’s
May rise as the daughters of INDIA.

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What if Catcalls were Cheeseburgers?

June 11, 2015 By HKearl

Street harassment is a heavy topic, so it’s always a nice to find a video that is critical of it, but also gives you a chance to laugh at how ridiculous it is. Thank you Tess Paras for creating this video “What If Catcalls were Cheeseburgers?” (NSFW…. here is a version that is safe for work)

She said, “This comedy short explores how women experience catcalls. It challenges the notion that catcalls are compliments that all women should enjoy, and explores how they can be disruptions that diminish the value of a woman’s place in the world.

It was a pleasure to team up with my director, Rebekka Johnson, as well as have a cast of hilarious comedians and actors on board. We had a great time making the sketch, I hope you enjoy it and share it with others!”

H/T to my OpEd Project colleague Chelsea for sharing it with me!

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