Last summer, I was walking down to the dollar store with my 2 year old son to enjoy the sun and get him a toy. Our apartment is only a couple blocks away but on our walk, I got catcalled at least four times with one guy rolling his window down a couple inches and screaming “WHORE” at me. Unfortunately, I often get called a whore or slut when I’m walking with my son.

One man made some rude comment while I was walking with my son and the idiot parked his truck pretty close to where we were going. When he saw me walking up to confront him, he hopped back in his truck and sped off faster than if I had been a cop!

Oh, and I wasn’t wearing skimpy clothes either. I was wearing a baggy long sleeved top and thick leggings when the first event occurred.

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Educate men and boys by making our stories known. If we can even reach 25% it will be a marvelous success.

– Victoria Barnett

Location: Snohomish County, Washington

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I was minding my own business walking down a semi-busy street when a middle aged, older man made eye contact with me from his car. Used to unintentional eye contact, I paid no mind and kept on walking; however a few minutes later, the same person stopped his car beside me and asked if I needed a ride. I politely refused and continued walking, but he was persistent.

For the next five minutes, he would drive alongside me and periodically stop and try to persuade me to go with him. He said that we were going the same direction, so he would not mind to give me a ride. Every time, I politely refused. In those five minutes, I tried to make eye contact with several passing drivers, but none actively responded. Therefore, I took an active role in protecting myself with an uncompromising attitude. Although he tried to reassure me that his intentions were pure, his actions were too suspicious; it made no sense why a middle aged man would persistently offer a teenage girl a ride. Finally, he gave up, drove straight for a few meters, and u-turned away. So much for same direction.

This encounter was unsettling, for another middle aged male had once followed me to my house before. What I feared the most was that some girls may be too scared to react and give into his persistence. This area was near a local high school, and this event happened approximately an hour before school would end. Thus, I feared he would continue to prey on others.

I fear for the safety of high school girls, younger girls, and any person walking on the streets of this seemingly safe suburb. No person should be subjected to this experience because gender and/ or sexuality should not play a role in a person’s safety on the streets.

– Anonymous

Location: Temple City

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Walking from my car, I feel two men staring at me while whispering something under their breath. Irritated, look up and lock eyes with them for half a second each.

Once they’ve past me, one of the men yells, “Stop looking so angry!”

I turn around, strongly locking eyes with each of them sternly asking, “Why can’t I be angry?!”

He returns, “I don’t know, but stop looking all mad!”

At this point, I’m shaking, wishing I had hulk strength to stomp the shit out of these men. I angrily walk towards the store.

I turn around, speed-walking with my fists tight, and yell, “YOU DON’T KNOW?! I know that If you actually gave a SHIT about my emotions and feelings you would be respectful and let me have my uninterrupted peace! I can feel whatever the f*** I want!”

If I were a man, I guarantee I wouldn’t have been yelled at for looking upset. Society advertises women as sexy, happy, giggly, and having emotions looking similar to Lisa Frank’s art.
Both men AND women should feel comfortable and safe to feel whatever it is they are feeling.

– TM

Location: Long Beach, CA

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Yesterday I went to prom with my friends and after some time, my best friend and I decided to get some fries because we were really hungry. While walking there several men approached us and harassed us with catcalls but that was just the start. What made me really angry was when we walked back and one guy walked by and said, “If you’re dressed like this you shouldn’t be surprised if you get raped.”

This needs to stop. I was already scared of walking alone outside when it’s dark but now I’m horrified. And if anybody thinks ʺnot all menʺ THERE WERE TWO MEN WHO DIDNT HARASS US OUT OF AT LEAST 20 MEN.

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We need to teach people that it’s not the victims fault and we need to teach boys and men to behave (I’m not saying it’s just women that are victims but I’m talking about my experience here) and tell them it’s not f***ing ok to talk like that!

– Anonymous

Location: Graz, Austria

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While I was still attending high school, I would often walk to meet my mother at her place of work. My mother is a middle school teacher and her school is very close to mine. Walking to her school was hardest when I was alone and the boys would comment about how “fine my body was” or how pretty I was, often in rude and creepy detail. Once I made the mistake of leaving my school late, because I had a club meeting. Consequently, I was followed by about six teenage boys, a posse I suppose. They were cat calling me, and became angry and aggressive when I calmly refused to respond. It wasn’t until I finally saw a security guard still on campus that my body stopped shaking and the fear subsided. The boys saw him as well and walked in the opposite direction. I ran to my mother’s school that day.

– Miramar

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