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Video: 10 Hours of Walking in NYC as a Woman

October 28, 2014 By HKearl

UPDATE: I posted this before I had a chance to watch it. After watching it and reading comments about it, two things come to mind:

1- I agree with some people who are saying that not everything depicted looked like harassment, but I think the point was to show the accumulation of how often men were speaking to her on the street, unsolicited, in a single day. I doubt they were all saying good morning and bless you to men walking by so in that sense, they are still treating her like public property that they can interrupt at any time. 

2 – I am disappointed that the clip reinforces the stereotype that street harassment is men of color harassing white women when men of all races harass and women of all races are harassed… And some women harass and some men are harassed!! What would be more useful is a video that follows five different people of different backgrounds/identities in different parts of the country for a day to show the different types of harassment they each experience.

But that said, this video is getting a lot of views and attention and that is something this issue needs!

Via CNN.com:

“God bless you, mami,”

“Hey baby.”

“DAMN.”

“You don’t wanna talk?”

This is just a sampling of the taunts one woman experienced in 10 hours of walking though the streets of New York. Her experience was filmed and edited into a 1:56 public service announcement for anti-street-harassment group Hollaback!

Street harassment disproportionately impacts women, people of color, LGBTQ individuals, and young people, the group says on its website: “Although the degree to which Shoshana gets harassed is shocking, the reality is that the harassment that people of color and LGBTQ individuals face is oftentimes more severe and more likely to escalate into violence.”

Inspired by the experiences of his girlfriend, shooter Rob Bliss reached out to Hollaback! to partner on a PSA highlighting the impact of street harassment. For 10 hours, he walked with a camera in his backpack in front of volunteer Shoshana B. Roberts, who walked silently with two microphones in her hands.

The impact? You’ll have to see it for yourself.”

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#OrangeDay Chalking for Safe Public Spaces

October 25, 2014 By HKearl

Message from board member Erin

On the 25th of every month, the UNiTE Campaign hosts #OrangeDay to raise awareness about gender issues. Today, 25 October, focuses on “Safe and Empowering Public Spaces with and for Women and Girls.”

Stop Street Harassment held a chalk walk and flyering in New York City this afternoon for it, led by our co-social media manager Khiara. Thanks to her and to everyone who participated!

 

 

 

 

 

 

I’m visiting relatives on a farm in southern VA and wrote my own chalk message next to a road where I’ve been harassed while running during past visits.

I am so grateful the UN is bringing attention to this issue today to show it’s a serious global problem. And we at SSH are committed to speaking out about this problem today and every day.


 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

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“No, we are NOT flattered.”

October 25, 2014 By Contributor

Today, I was walking home from my campus when I had to pass the usual street that leads to my house. There has been a construction site on that street for around three months, and I have been catcalled several times by the workers on that site. This time one when I passed, one of them said “Hey” and looked at me with the most disgusting lecherous look ever. I decided I have had enough so I confronted them and asked, “Why did you call me??”

He looked confused, and then he said “No”. Then I asked louder “Why did you call me???”

He looked at his friend and then said “No” again. After that I walked away feeling happy and relieved because I just confronted my bully.

Optional: What’s one way you think we can make public places safer for everyone?

Raising awareness by doing campaigns to let men know that: No, we are NOT flattered.

– FD

Location: Near a construction site

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“Why Me?”

October 24, 2014 By Contributor

I am so damn sick of this happening to me. Today while outside I experienced getting harassed twice and each and every time that it has happened I have tried to ignore it and even stand up to it, but I have then realized that there is no use in me even wasting my time or breath to try and make these guys understand how small, degraded, disrespected and angry I feel.

They seem to get this sick and twisted perverted pleasure out of it and I’m tired of being ignored and humored and I am tired of people turning a blind eye to it. The sad part is when I try and stand up for myself, I am the one who is punished. I’m the one who has to suffer and pay for it. I didn’t ask for this. I try to come outside and leave the house for some fresh air but I can’t go anywhere in peace without being bothered. I am mainly experiencing this everyday. I don’t know nor understand this and why me? Do I have some type of stamp on my forehead?

Location: One incident occurred outside my local library. The other was while I was coming out of the bank.

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“Luckily I could escape this time”

October 23, 2014 By Contributor

Biking from school (art school is open till late) at 22.00, it was raining cats and dogs. Since I didn’t got a raincoat, I could feel the water running down my skin into my shoes. In an attempt not to get to grumpy, I started to sing. Almost home, I needed to enter several tunnels and here there was a man looking for some shelter. Being polite, I smiled and immediately I regreted my kindness.

He started shouting at me, HE WET PUSSY! and so on. The harder I biked away, more demented his voice became. Not sure if he even ran after me for a bit. It made me so angry, aggressive even, but I was definitely no match for him. I said something like: Let it be!

It was like oil on a campfire. As if my response gives him all reason and meaning to what he did and he shouted even more. Luckily I could escape this time. But I do fear the next encounter, since this is the second time seeing him.

What can I do? Change course? That feels like surrender and takes me even longer through the dark. Same way to night/next week?

I’m scared he’ll rape me. I feel ashamed for my kindness and guilty that I put myself in danger after being raped before. Despair for not having control over my own safety, where people say its a save country and where I should be grateful for my rights. Right? To hell with that!!! All this, because it rained…

Zula

Location: Netherlands

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